Confession: For years, my Sundays were a disaster.
Sometimes I’d spend the whole day scrolling, convincing myself I was “resting” and avoiding the Sunday scaries, only to feel gross and guilty when Monday hit.
Other times I’d swing to the opposite extreme – frantic cleaning, over-planning, and writing to-do lists so long they could double as novellas.
Either way, I’d go to bed feeling like I’d wasted the day or worked myself into exhaustion.
Now? I’ve found a middle ground.
It isn’t glamorous, but I do a handful of tiny ADHD Sunday habits that trick me into feeling semi-prepared for the week.
Not completely together (let’s not kid ourselves), but just enough that Monday doesn’t steamroll me.
Here are 10 ADHD Sunday habits that help me start the week with less chaos and more calm.
Here’s the thing about ADHD: transitions are brutal.
Weekends are relaxed(ish), weekdays are busy. That gear shift is seriously jarring.
If I roll into Monday cold, it feels like waking up mid-sprint. But when I do a few simple things Sunday night, I give myself a head start. Future-me doesn’t have to panic about the basics.
Think of ADHD Sunday habits like leaving breadcrumbs for yourself.
If ADHD is living in the forest of chaos, Sunday breadcrumbs make Monday morning slightly less “lost in the woods.”
By Sunday night, my brain was buzzing with “don’t forget this” thoughts: emails, groceries, random creative ideas, and the fact that I still hadn’t called the dentist.
If I don’t unload them, they circle like vultures.
So I grab a notebook and do a 10-minute brain dump. I let everything come out – messy, unfiltered, no categories. Sometimes it’s two pages long, sometimes it’s six lines.
The entire point is to stop ruminating and clear my head in prep for the upcoming week.
One Sunday, I wrote “buy shoelaces” in three different places. My planner, a sticky note, and a phone reminder. Brain dumps at least consolidate my chaos into one ridiculous list.
Pro tip: Once it’s out, I star 2–3 things that actually matter this week. The rest? Optional background noise.
Here’s my toxic trait: writing an ambitious weekly plan that could only be accomplished by three clones of me plus Hermione’s time-turner.
Now I set 3 anchors. That’s it. These are the things that, if done, will make the week feel like a win.
Examples:
Everything else = bonus round. Anchors = clarity without pressure.
If there’s one thing ADHD brains love to avoid, it’s repetitive tasks: laundry, emails, food prep. But batching one category on Sunday saves me from decision fatigue later.
Similar to habit stacking, batching boring tasks can be a cheat code for doing things that aren’t exactly exciting.
I don’t go wild—I pick one.
One week, I prepped breakfast burritos on Sunday. For four glorious mornings, I felt like an organized domestic goddess. By Thursday, I was back to eating pretzels and Cheez Whiz at 9 AM. Still worth it.
Nothing ruins my morning faster than playing hide-and-seek with my keys on a Monday morning. So I’ve started building a launch pad on Sunday night:
Some weeks, I even put my coffee mug next to the machine like a little gift from past-me to future-me.
The first time I tried this, Monday morning was so smooth I kept thinking, What did I forget? Turns out, nothing. It was just significantly less chaotic than usual.
If I try to deep-clean on Sundays, I end up spiraling and spending three hours scrubbing baseboards with no food in the fridge. Instead, I tidy one surface.
Usually it’s my desk. Laptop closed, papers stacked, random cups corralled. Done.
That way, Monday-me doesn’t start the week by staring at last week’s chaos.
ADHD hack: Light a candle when you’re finished. The sensory cue says “tidying is complete,” so you don’t wander into five more chores.
Morning-me cannot be trusted with clothing decisions.
Left to her own devices, she will stand in front of the closet in a towel for 12 minutes, paralyzed.
Instead of wasting precious brain cells deciding what to wear, I choose Monday’s outfit on Sunday night. Even if it’s just sweatpants and a t-shirt.
The win isn’t fashion, it’s saving much-needed brainpower.
This tip comes in handy, too. Once, I laid out an outfit and then promptly spilled juice on it on a Monday morning.
But at least I had a backup shirt ready. Progress, not perfection.
Meal prepping full dinners? Too much. But snacks? That I can handle.
If I’m not feeling like cooking the equivalent of a holiday feast, I’ll throw together snack bins on a Sunday: string cheese, pretzels, fruit, and trail mix.
Then, when weekday-me forgets to eat until 3 PM, there’s something ready for me to grab and eat.
This tiny ritual prevents 80% of my “hangry meltdown while standing in front of the fridge” moments.
ADHD brains get swallowed by reactive tasks.
One way I fight back is to block off one focus session for the week. I’ll literally write it down:
By deciding on Sunday which upcoming days will include my “focus time”, I’ve already given myself permission to protect that pocket in my schedule.
This allows me to have much-anticipated chill time with nothing but my blanket and a mug of tea.
Raise your hand if you’ve been known to avoid mundane, but often important tasks like sending texts, answering emails, and making doctor’s appointments.
ADHD brains frequently put off boring life admin. Sundays are when I wrangle my mind and get these types of things done
I fight the urge to avoid and pick one every Sunday:
One tiny task keeps the pile from growing into an anxiety monster.
This one took me forever to learn. If I overdo it on Sunday night—late-night planning, endless “just one more thing”—I crash into Monday fried.
Now I end Sundays with something restful on purpose:
That small ritual signals: “Prep is done. We’re shifting into calm.”
Important disclaimer: I don’t do all of these every week. Some Sundays are a total flop. Some weeks, I only brain dump. Other weeks, I manage two or three habits and feel Beyoncé-level functional.
The point isn’t to nail an effective Sunday reset routine perfectly.
It’s to pick a couple of low-effort rituals that lower chaos for future-you.
Even one breadcrumb makes a difference.
Also, not every Sunday has to be about prep.
Some weeks, the most productive thing you can do is rest, and my guide to screen-free Sundays can help you discover an ADHD-friendly way to unplug and reset.
You don’t need to overhaul your entire week on a Sunday.
You don’t need a color-coded planner or a perfectly tidy house. You just need a few doable anchors that lighten Monday’s load.
Because Sunday prep isn’t about discipline – it’s about kindness. It’s saying: “Hey, future-me, I know Mondays are rough. Here’s a head start.”
So tonight, just pick one of the ADHD Sunday habits to try: write down a messy list, lay out tomorrow’s clothes, fill your water bottle. That’s it. Future-you will notice.
And maybe, just maybe, Monday won’t hit quite as hard.
Sunday prep, but make it ADHD-friendly.
Roxy is the creator of The Everyday Flourish, a relatable personal growth blog for women who are tired of burnout, chaos, and hustle culture.
A recovering overthinker and unofficial life guinea pig, she shares honest self-care strategies, ADHD-friendly productivity tips, and mindset shifts that actually feel doable.
Around here, personal growth comes with grace, not pressure - and a lot fewer to-do lists.